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Are you a naturally
optimistic person or do you find your self too often feeling sad and
depressed, with a long face and a heavy heart? Most of us have heard
about the importance of seeing the glass half full instead of seeing
it half empty. We all know that positive, optimistic people are
happier, healthier and more successful. But how does one go from
feeling depressed and pessimistic to becoming happy and naturally
optimistic?
If you are feeling
pessimistic right now, you probably feel doubtful that you could
actually change the way you see the world, but I want you to know
that it really is possible! Just because you’re feeling sad and
depressed today doesn’t mean you have to live that way for the
rest of your life. In my work as a psychotherapist, I’ve helped
many people make that important change. I know that you can do it
too.
I’ve identified a
few steps that will accelerate your journey from pessimism and
depression to optimism and light-heartedness. I suggest that you
make a vow to yourself that you will try them every day for one
month and then watch and see what happens in your life!
Overcome
Depression--1. Learn to
identify your feelings and process through them until you release
them. Identifying what you really feel and processing through
your feelings is the most important step in this process. When
authentic release from the emotional pain happens, you will feel
free of the negativity and full of creative ideas about how to
handle the difficult situation better in the future. When you don't
process through your feelings, you keep accumulating negative
feelings that turn into ugly negative attitudes over time. Holding
negative attitudes over time causes depression, while releasing the
feelings leads to natural joy and light-heartedness.
Overcome
Depression--2. Build a healthy support system and surround your self with
friends who are also interested in personal growth. Join a
support group or a positive activity where you can make some real
friends. True friends are people who want you to be the happy,
confident, optimistic person you can be! True friends will also do
anything they can to help you get past your depression and pessimism
to become your true, happy, light-hearted self, including helping
you deal with difficult issues that you may want to avoid facing.
Overcome
Depression--3. Get out in nature every day and go for a half hour walk! Being
out in nature helps to lift your spirits and see things in more
positive, optimistic ways, and walking a half hour three times a
week is said to be comparable to taking an anti-depressant, minus
all the negative side effects.
Overcome
Depression--4.
Ask your Higher Power for divine help to become more optimistic, even if you don’t know
what that means. There is a
power greater than you who is always available to help you if you
simply ask. You don’t have to join an organized religion or go
through any traditional rituals. Simply talk to your Higher Power in
your mind and ask for help and guidance in your life and then watch
and see what happens! Your Higher Power will undoubtedly guide you
to a more optimistic outlook. Remember to be also grateful for the
help and guidance you receive.
Overcome
Depression--5.
Practice the art of healing laughter every hour and every day of
your life! If you've forgotten how to laugh, imagine yourself
laughing like you did as a child every day until you find a way to
make it happen! Your imagination offers a powerful suggestion to
your unconscious mind that will naturally be created in your life in
fun, serendipitous ways! It’s hard to stay pessimistic and
depressed when you are laughing regularly. Just practicing laughter,
itself, could help you wake up one day as a positive, happy,
optimistic person!
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