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For many years
conventional medicine has believed that our genetics are the primary
cause of our physical health. In the 1990s, however, scientific
research found that our emotions play at least an equal or possibly
even a greater role in determining whether we will be faced with
illnesses like heart disease, cancer, diabetes, fibromyalgia,
obesity, alcoholism, fractures or chronic pain.
Research Studies Show Your
Emotions Affect Your Health
One of the best research studies
available involving the effect of emotions on physical health is the
ACE study, which was conducted by the Federal Centers for Disease
Control, where researchers studied people who had an "adverse
childhood experience" before the age of 18. "Adverse
childhood experiences" included recurrent physical, emotional,
or sexual abuse; growing up in a dysfunctional family where someone
was clinically depressed, alcoholic, mentally ill or suicidal; or in
a situation where the parents were separated, divorced, or taken
away from the child in some way.
Researchers found that "adverse
childhood experiences" were far more common than what has been
recognized or acknowledged in the past. What was even more shocking
was the scientific evidence of the correlation between these
experiences and adult physical health. It became obvious that the
people who frequent doctors offices on a regular basis have often
experienced these emotionally painful 'adverse childhood
experiences."
If you are one of the many people who
grew up in a dysfunctional family and experienced some of these
"adverse childhood experiences," you probably grew up
believing that these experiences were normal. You also learned your
ways of coping with your negative experiences from the role modeling
of your dysfunctional caregivers. If you haven't had the opportunity
to resolve those early experiences through psychotherapy or through
some type of healthy support group, you have probably unknowingly
continued the dysfunctional patterns that you learned. Too often
this results in working out your emotional issues through poor
physical health.
Change your Emotions and
Change your Health
Millions of people like you visit
medical offices every day, hoping for relief from their current
physical symptom. The problem is that when you don't deal with the
roots of the symptom, the emotional pain will simply emerge in
another way over time. The good news I have to offer you today is
that it's never too late to change the unhealthy patterns you've
created! No matter what your age, your race, or your socio-economic
situation, there is always a way to heal the past and create healthy
life patterns. You simply have to be dedicated and willing to do the
work it takes to turn your life around.
Although psychology is still a new
science, we have learned so much over the past thirty years that can
help you dramatically change those old, unhealthy patterns. The
necessary skills for functioning in a healthy ways do not require
higher education or life-long study. With a little time and
practice, you can learn how to identify your emotions and resolve
them in healthy ways. Expressing your emotions in positive ways
greatly improves your self-esteem and self-confidence as well as
your physical health and well-being.
Build a Support System for
Changing Emotions and Health
You can also learn skills for
establishing healthy relationships with people who understand and
support what you are going through. Building a healthy support
system of friends who love you unconditionally will keep you
motivated on your healing path when your own determination begins to
waver. By simply utilizing these simple, effective tools, you can
dramatically change your perceptions, your experience, and your
approach to life, which ultimately improves both your emotional and
physical health.
Just remember that no matter what has
happened to you, it's never too late to turn your life around! You
can absolutely learn the skills for emotional and physical health.
It only takes one small step forward each day. The first step is
simply finding within your self the willingness to change. From
willingness, you will definitely find a way to begin your exciting
journey to emotional and physical health!
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